Ready to rethink your tasting room experiences? I share why putting guests first, can reignite your ability to build long-lasting relationships
Are you a winery owner, tasting room manager, or passionate wine professional struggling to connect with today’s wine lovers? Maybe you also noticed your guests feeling intimidated or barely listening to you during tastings.
In episode #4 of “We Taste Wine Differently,” I unpack why traditional wine education often falls flat, and how putting your guest at the heart of the tasting transforms the whole experience.
Let’s break down the key takeaways from this episode, and discover the science-proven, approachable steps to making your wine experiences memorable, meaningful, and ultimately, more profitable.
For decades, wine marketing and hospitality have fixated on the product: grape varieties, terroir, vintage, and technical winemaking details.
“You sometimes forget why your guests visit because you assume they come for your wines. And yes, they do—but not only and likely not the way you think about wine.” Isabelle Lesschaeve
Many guests walk into a tasting room excited…but quickly feel unsure if they’ll say the “right” thing or taste wines the “correct” way.
Rigid scripts, jargon-heavy presentations, and a “sage on the stage” mentality can leave people disconnected, insecure, and overwhelmed. They may even feel they need to become wine experts just to enjoy a glass.
If you want guests to remember your winery—and return—you need to flip the script.
In this episode, I challenge you, the wine businesses, to switch from a “product-focused” to a “consumer-centric” mindset. What does this mean, practically?
Focus is on the wine itself—process, features, awards.
Staff recite technical notes before guests even smell or sip.
Success is measured by sales only, not guest satisfaction.
The guest becomes the “hero” of the experience, not the wine.
The goal is to empower visitors to trust their senses and share authentic, personal reactions.
You build rapport, gather valuable consumer insights, and foster loyalty—not just a one-time purchase.
“A consumer-centric approach fundamentally places the customer at the heart of every business decision. Instead of just focusing on product features, the goal shifts to solving customer problems and achieving meaningful outcomes for them.”
Today’s wine market is saturated and fragmented. Wineries that stand out—and thrive—are those that create emotional, memorable connections.
That happens only when guests feel confident, engaged, and respected.
Ready to move beyond old-school tasting rituals?
Here are actionable steps you can take right away:
The first step is attitudinal: Stop trying to impress with expertise. Instead, make your tasting about guiding and listening.
Start with open-ended questions: “How does this wine make you feel?” or “What does it remind you of?”
Avoid telling guests what they “should” taste.
Validate their perceptions—there are no wrong answers!
Comparative tastings are one of the most effective (and fun!) ways I have found to boost guests' confidence and engagement.
Instead of serving one wine at a time with lengthy explanations, invite guests to compare two similar wines side-by-side:
Two whites or two reds from your portfolio to illustrate your flavor signatures
The same grape grown in different soils or aged with/without oak barrels
Different winemaking techniques (stainless steel vs. concrete, for example)
It makes the experience playful and non-intimidating. Most people find it easier to identify preferences and describe flavors through comparison, rather than in isolation.
“The task is playful and educational and participants often discover tasting skills they didn’t know they had. That’s a confidence boost right there.”
Your tasting room is not just a sales floor—it’s a living, breathing focus group.
Instead of chasing sales alone, start collecting data on guest preferences, language, and reactions.
Provide simple tasting sheets where guests jot down what the wine evokes, not just the expected technical notes.
Take notes yourself (or have a colleague do) when engaged in a group conversation, and pay attention to the words guests use to talk about the wines.
Observe non-verbal feedback:
Which glasses empty fastest?
Which wines spark animated discussion?
Offer short onboarding calls for wine club members to learn about their hopes, intentions, and experiences.
AI tools such as Notebook LM can help you summarize collected language and spot trends in what your guests enjoy or struggle with.
These priceless consumer insights inform everything, from your next wine release to label design to wording on your website.
To truly measure the impact of a consumer-centric approach, you need real feedback—not just a feeling.
Use exit surveys: Ask guests, “Would you recommend this tasting experience to others?” (This Net Promoter Score alone is a powerful benchmark!)
Offer an easy QR code or post-visit email for reviews and reflections.
Regularly revisit your guest feedback to adapt your tastings for changing preferences.
Moving to a consumer-centric model is not about giving up your passion for quality or your product story.
It’s about making your wines relevant and meaningful to real people—the guests right in front of you.
The bottom line:
Guests who feel heard, valued, and empowered are more likely to remember their visit, talk about your winery, and ultimately become loyal wine club members. Wine sales will follow authentic connection—not the other way around.
As Dr. Isabelle says:
“If consumers feel heard and appreciated, they will remember your brand. Even if they don’t buy from you immediately, they will likely give you their email addresses with a big smile.”
The wine industry is evolving, and today’s consumers are seeking community, authenticity, and approachability. Let’s move away from elitist scripts and create tastings where everyone feels like they belong—no expert badge required.
Start by asking more questions and listening: your next best marketing insight is already in your tasting room.
Experiment with comparative tastings and get playful in your approach.
Make feedback part of your process: refine your experiences and watch your business transform.
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Blog author, Wine Sensory Scientist and Wine Tasting Coach
Internationally renowned wine sensory scientist, Isabelle demystifies wine tasting and helps serious wine lovers improve their senses of smell and taste to sharpen their tasting skills and tasting notes.
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